What's In The Method?
ROles of Relating
What Roles Do
You Play In Your Relationships?
Based On The 4 Roles of Secure Relationships And The 6 Archetypes to Avoid In The Book Roles Of Relating
The Relationship Archetype Method
The Relationship Archetype Method is a personalized deep dive into your relating style and conflict dynamics revealed to you by the Relationship Archetype Quiz. The method creates an actionable path toward security for couples based on their individual data in the 4 Roles of Relating we navigate in secure relationships, the 2 Zones we operate in every day, and the 6 Relationship Archetypes we do our best to balance and to avoid.
Everything you do in your romantic relationships will fall into one of four key roles—It will either be in the Lover's Role, Friend's Role, Consultant's Role, or Supporter's Role. When you play these roles well and keep them in balance, your relationship will thrives. But if one takes over while another gets neglected, things can start to feel…off. Maybe the spark is fading, the deep talks are missing, or you’re stuck in a loop of miscommunication. The goal of The Relationship Archetype Method is to help you and your partner decide on what balance is right for you and how to stay in that balance to achieve health and security.
Is Your Relationship In Balance?
Your Zone Balance
In your relationship, are you working as much as you are playing? When your role balance is off, the easiest way you can tell based on the balance between work and play. The Friends and Lovers roles both belong to the Zone of Play, while the Consultants and Supporters roles belong in the Zone of work. Balancing work and play will go a long way to help you find balance in your roles as well.
The Zone Of Play
The Zone of Play is about time, energy, and attention you and your partner spend in the Lover and the Friend roles in your relationship. This zone is characterized by sensation and experience. This is where couples decompress, play, have pleasure, touch, share words of regard, and have fun.
The Zone Of Work
The Zone of Work is about the time, energy, and attention you and your partner spend in the Consultant and Supporter roles in your relationship. This zone is characterized by collaboration and action. This is where you plan, dream, align values, strategize, give and receive advice, share tasks, and have accountability.
Is you relationship in balance?
Your
Relationship Archetype
These six relationship archetypes are what happens when things go wrong in relationships. Unlock the secrets to a balanced and secure partnership by discovering The archetype of Your relationship style. When the four roles are out of balance and one role dominates, you may find yourself in the Caregiver/Therapist, Boss, Parent, BFF, RoomMate, or Flame archetype. Which one do you go to when conflict arrises? Which one is standing in the way of your ability to create a healthy, happy, secure connection with your partner? Take the quiz to find out.
The 6 Archetypes
The Boss
A Zone Of Work Dominance With A Deficit In The Financial Consultant Role
"I Know Better On What's Best For Our Future"
The Parent
A Zone Of Play Dominance With A Deficit In The Supporter & Lover Roles
"I Do Everything Around Here"
The Caregiver
A Zone Of Work Dominance With A Deficit In The Health Consultant Role
"I Will Make You Feel Better (so that I can feel better)."
The Roommate
A Zone Of Play Dominance With A Deficit In The Lover & Friend Roles
"We Work Around Each Other Well"
The BFF
A Zone Of Play Dominance With A Deficit In The Lover & Supporter Roles
"I Don't Want To Risk The Good Thing We Have Going."
The Flame
A Zone Of Play Dominance With A Deficit In All Other Roles
"Let's Not Complicate Things."
Ready To Discover Your Archetype?
Take The Archetype Quiz
Read The Book
Roles of Relating is a relational framework that draws upon the common relating styles every couple faces; the ones that move us to security and the ones that create conflict. The roles, zones, and archetypes covered in this book are intuitive and relatable; every reader will easily resonate with the material and be able to apply the concepts into their unique relationship to improve clarity and reveal a path toward security.
Not only does the book outline the roles, zones, and archetypes, it also provides actionable solutions for each relating style using the map of security framework. Take the quiz to get started, but also read the book to dig into the roles we all play in relationships, the zones we must balance, and the 6 relating styes we need to avoid for health and security.
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Balancing Relational Roles For Healthy Secure Relationships
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