What's In The Method?
ROles of Relating
What Roles Do
You Play In Your Relationships?
Based On The 4 Roles of Secure Relationships And The 6 Archetypes to Avoid In The Book Roles Of Relating
The Relationship Archetype Method
The Relationship Archetype Method is a personalized deep dive into your relating style and conflict dynamics revealed to you by the Relationship Archetype Quiz. The method creates an actionable path toward security for couples based on their individual data in the 4 Roles of Relating we navigate in secure relationships, the 2 Zones we operate in every day, and the 6 Relationship Archetypes we do our best to balance and to avoid.
The essence of every romantic relationship can be broken into these four roles; Lover, Friend, Consultant, and Supporter. How often and how well you play each role will define the balance, health, and experience of your relationship dynamic. Too much of one and not enough of another may be the reason you and your partner feel "off". The way you play your roles may even be contributing to your relationship conflict.
Is Your Relationship In Balance?
Your Zone Balance
The four roles can be understood as two zones of relating in your relationship dynamic. There is the zone of work and the zone of play. Not only is it necessary for a healthy secure relationship to have balance between the roles, it must also have balance between the zones. It is important to spend as much time, energy, and effort in work as you spend in play. Both are important ways to connect.
The Zone Of Play
The Zone of Play is about time, energy, and attention you and your partner spend in the Lover and the Friend roles in your relationship. This zone is characterized by sensation and experience. This is where couples decompress, play, have pleasure, touch, share words of regard, and have fun.
The Zone Of Work
The Zone of Work is about the time, energy, and attention you and your partner spend in the Consultant and Supporter roles in your relationship. This zone is characterized by collaboration and action. This is where you plan, dream, align values, strategize, give and receive advice, share tasks, and have accountability.
Is you relationship in balance?
Your
Relationship Archetype
These six relationship archetypes are what happens when things go wrong in relationships. Unlock the secrets to a balanced and secure partnership by discovering The archetype of Your relationship style. When the four roles are out of balance and one role dominates, you may find yourself in the Caregiver/Therapist, Boss, Parent, BFF, RoomMate, or Flame archetype. Which one do you go to when conflict arrises? Which one is standing in the way of your ability to create a healthy, happy, secure connection with your partner? Take the quiz to find out.
The 6 Archetypes
The Boss
A Zone Of Work Dominance With A Deficit In The Financial Consultant Role
"I Know Better On What's Best For Our Future"
The Parent
A Zone Of Play Dominance With A Deficit In The Supporter & Lover Roles
"I Do Everything Around Here"
The Caregiver
A Zone Of Work Dominance With A Deficit In The Health Consultant Role
"I Know Better On What's Best For Your Health"
The Roommate
A Zone Of Play Dominance With A Deficit In The Lover & Friend Roles
"We Work Around Each Other Well"
The BFF
A Zone Of Play Dominance With A Deficit In The Lover & Supporter Roles
"We Have So Much Fun Together"
The Flame
A Zone Of Play Dominance With A Deficit In All Other Roles
"Let's Not Complicate Things"
Ready To Discover Your Archetype?
Take The Archetype Quiz
Read The Book
Roles of Relating is a relational framework that draws upon the common relating styles every couple faces; the ones that move us to security and the ones that create conflict. The roles, zones, and archetypes covered in this book are intuitive and relatable; every reader will easily resonate with the material and be able to apply the concepts into their unique relationship to improve clarity and reveal a path toward security.
Not only does the book outline the roles, zones, and archetypes, it also provides actionable solutions for each relating style using the map of security framework. Take the quiz to get started, but also read the book to dig into the roles we all play in relationships, the zones we must balance, and the 6 relating styes we need to avoid for health and security.
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Balancing Relational Roles For Healthy Secure Relationships
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