The
Flame
Read all about the how the Flame shows up in relationships; their strengths, their challenges, and what they must do to build healthy secure relationships. Get a deeper dive and learn how to break free from this Archetype in The Flame Blueprint.
Not Sure What Your Archetype Is?
Dominance: Zone Of Play
Role Deficit: Lover Out Of Control
This archetype lives in the zone of play, which means you are likely good at being in the moment and enjoying the ride but feel challenged when the work of relating gets heavy and hard. Learn more about the roles and zones in Q & A.
The Flame Archetype
If you got the Flame Archetype, you are so passionate. You love big and you prioritize expressing love to the people around you. You are comfortable and confident in yourself. You love it when someone can be comfortable and confident in themselves around you also. You are happy to help others refocus on what really matters and cut out all the distractions and busy-ness of life that no longer serves them.
What Does This Mean For My Relationship?
If the challenging aspects of the Flame Archetype show up in your romantic relationship, it may feel like sparks are flying in this instant deep connection. This MIGHT be okay at first, but it is not the only thing a relationship needs in order to thrive. A balance relationship would definitely prioritize the lover role OVER all else, but not AT THE EXPENSE OF all other roles.
This intense feeling might feel good at first, but while the feelings are at all time highs, the necessary foundation for a healthy secure relationship is overlooked (or at least not started yet). A failure to discuss and commit to future plans will make creating a secure long-term relationship improbable because there is no task sharing and no real or sustainable emotional intimacy.
Learn how to build intimacy and navigate commitment with The Flame Blueprint.
Strenghts
Passionate, Spontaneous, Sensual, Adventurous, and Charismatic.
Challenges
- Unsustainable Intensity: The constant pursuit of excitement can be exhausting and unrealistic in the long term, potentially leading to burnout or disconnection.
The Flame Archetype Blueprint has more detail on the five major strengths and the five major challenges that Fling Archetypes face, along with more solutions and action items to help build healthy and secure relationships.
What is A Flame Like In Relationships?
The Flame Archetype happens when one partner wants to keep it casual and prioritize emotional and physical connection at the expense of all other necessary foundations of the relationship. Here is an example:
Casey, who embodies the Flame archetype, thrives on spontaneous adventures and passionate encounters with their partner Charley. They enjoy the intensity of their connection but often avoid discussions about the future or deeper emotional bonds, leading Charley to wonder about the long-term viability of their relationship.
Is This Your Archetype?
Balance The Flame Archetype
With This Blueprint
Unlock the secrets to a more fulfilling relationship with the Flame Archetype Blueprint! This downloadable guide is tailor-made to help you navigate the complexities of your unique relationship dynamic and includes a deep dive into this archetype, date ideas, thought provoking questions for you to consider, and conversation starters for you and your partner.
- Establish Lasting Foundations: Ground your passionate connection with stability and security, ensuring that the excitement of the flame evolves into a resilient, enduring bond.
- Balance Passion with Depth: Cultivate a relationship that thrives on both intense passion and profound emotional connection, ensuring a holistic and satisfying partnership.
- Foster Mutual Growth: Embrace opportunities for personal and shared development, allowing your relationship to mature and flourish, supporting each other's journey towards fulfillment and self-realization.
Get your hands on the blueprint and start transforming your relationship today!
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